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Hitting Your Lowest Point - Depressed and Defeated!
There are days when I have an overwhelming urge to quit. Depression. Life has beaten me down and told me to lie down. Defeated. However,...
micheledpayne0
Jun 21, 20243 min read


In My Weakness, I am Strong
I read a quote by Chrissi Jami: "To share your weakness is to make yourself vulnerable; to make yourself vulnerable is to show your...
micheledpayne0
Apr 26, 20243 min read


The Peace In Forgiveness
Forgiveness is a choice we make. It is not for the benefit of the other person. It's not so they can skip away merrily into the sunset....
micheledpayne0
Mar 29, 20242 min read


No Challenge, No Change!
When I was a teenager, I was very insecure and emotional about who I was. I always thought I wasn’t good enough, which affected my...
micheledpayne0
Mar 9, 20243 min read


The Unknown Journey - Entrepreneurship
After a week of intense reminders that I am an entrepreneur working toward my vision, I am challenging myself to maintain my winning...
micheledpayne0
Mar 1, 20243 min read


Whining vs. Winning!
It's that thing called life again. We have to face each day with its inevitable ups and downs. Some face challenges, whining and...
micheledpayne0
Feb 22, 20242 min read


L.O.V.E. - Lessons On Voicing Emotions
I learned when I was younger that I was passive-aggressive until I was not. I used to bite my tongue on things I should have been...
micheledpayne0
Feb 14, 20242 min read


Self-Control....Whatever that is!
Life is full of unexpected and moderately intense moments. We always resist the temptation to blow a gasket or manage triggers that make...
micheledpayne0
Feb 9, 20242 min read


Evade Envy and Block Bitterness
Envy! Defined as a feeling of discontented or resentful longing aroused by someone else's possessions, qualities, or luck. Envy is hard...
micheledpayne0
Feb 1, 20243 min read
FAIL. LEARN. GROW. WIN.
Life is hard, and I’ve lived a hard life. It’s been many years since I was evicted and had to rebuild from scratch. I was in my twenties...
micheledpayne0
Jan 25, 20243 min read


P*ss or Get Off The Pot
My father was an extremely strict man who had no sons and three daughters, so he treated his girls like they were boys. One of his...
micheledpayne0
Jan 19, 20243 min read
It's Time To Learn To A-D-A-P-T
Most people talk about what is wrong in their lives or what they want to change, but they're not ready to try when there is a solution or...
micheledpayne0
Jan 11, 20242 min read
Don't Drink the "Kool Aid" Too Fast!
First, Kool-Aid is not our subject for today, nor is this an insinuation there is anything wrong with Kool-Aid when used as intended. The...
micheledpayne0
Jan 4, 20242 min read


Cleaning Up My Mess
Being aware of the messes we make in our lives is an essential part of the journey. I love things being decent and in order, but I hate...
micheledpayne0
Dec 28, 20232 min read
Creating a Healthy Family Dynamic for the Holidays (and Beyond!)
Family dynamics refers to how we interact as a family with each other while having individual goals and preferences. It is an evaluation...
micheledpayne0
Dec 20, 20232 min read
Tapped Out: Balancing A Busy Momma Lifestyle
There is no shortage of things to do when you're a mother. It doesn't matter if you have one child or seven; the number of 'things' you...
micheledpayne0
Dec 4, 20232 min read


Flawless FriYAY -
When we think of something being flawless, we think of it being without blemish or error, simply perfect. I believe that we are all...
micheledpayne0
Dec 1, 20232 min read
Commitment to Self, "I do!"
Hello Everyone! Welcome to Commitment to Self, "I do!". I'm Michele a 44 year old life and health coach and local real estate agent...
micheledpayne0
Nov 30, 20232 min read
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